Gift Ideas for the Newly Independent Dater
January 24th, 2008
In a recent conversation with my son (who left the nest a few months ago and is dating ‘Adorable Girlfriend’), he revealed that he and A.G. have a weekly date night. When I asked what he had planned he commented that money is tight since he’d just paid bills and was in between paychecks, so he was going to suggest they take advantage of the fresh rains and enjoy an evening of puddle jumping followed by hot chocolate.
His realizations impressed me:
- Take care of important things first when it comes to budgeting your money
- Let the lack of funds spur creativity
- Important relationships deserve the investment of time
That conversation inspired this list of gifts designed to foster meaningful relationships for the newly independent adults that are juggling school, part-time jobs, and dating.
- A cool picnic back pack loaded with everything necessary for an outing: Map or tour guide featuring the local hiking trails, sunscreen, trail mix, granola bars, salami, cheese, crackers, and sport’s drinks…exploring all the trails in the tour guide will promote good health and provide activity for future dates at a relatively low cost over time
- Gift card to the movie theater
- “Movie Madness’ gift box that’s stocked with popcorn, candy bars, nutty snack mix, soft drinks, and a gift card to the local video store (Or, why not purchase a plan where you can have 3 movies out at a time and give him carte blanche to use one of the three at all times?)
- A plant to grow & nurture, as does the relationship, with a Tree-in-a-Bag or a windowsill garden
- Gift cards to the local coffee shop or smoothie joint (In support of local businesses, I like to choose the ‘mom & pop’ joints over the big chains, which as an extra perk, often have free wi-fi & live evening music or art exhibitions making for a cool date)
- Gift card to the grocery store so they can shop together and then cook dinner together
- Gift card to a restaurant that can be used for a date (I’ve done this in the past for him. He told me they found a way to make it last by ordering from the appetizer menu that was 1/2 price during happy hour rather than ordering entrees.)
- Passes to the local miniature golf/amusement park
What’s your suggestion for these ‘newly independent daters’?
January 24th, 2008 at 2:16 pm
Cute ideas! Another one could be cool little games they could bring along on a date to the local coffee shop or on a picnic. Recently, my boyfriend and I have been spending mornings at the coffee shop playing backgammon - having a grand old time!